According to H, it's nothing but a game --- and a game that you have to wise up to.
I was telling him about my firm rule of not taking things past the third date if I don't see any potential in a person. What's the point, right? And it's only something I've wised up to in the last year or two.
I'm getting older and I don't want to waste my time anymore --- but at the same time, I don't want to let on that this is how I feel. I mean, it's just guaranteed to send a guy running for the hills, you know?
H was telling me about how he'll usually wait about a week before he calls up a girl again --- just to add a bit of mystery and to keep her guessing, he said.
"It's all a game," he kept teling me.
I understand that. I really do. C, apparently, doesn't. She claims she's been out of the game for so long that she doesn't know what the hell's going on anymore.
Like this "waiting game" that I insist on playing. She's afraid if I wait too long, I'll wind up missing out on a good thing.
But shouldn't you hold back and wait just a little when it comes to someone who's just recently come out of a relationship?
Sometimes, I really second guess myself. I'll think one thing and then think, "Maybe I'm wrong."
And then I think things to death.
Wrote an overly long email about it to my best friend last night.
Remember when there was all of that crap in the news about how people thought Oprah and her best friend Gayle were gay? I thought that was so stupid, but I think women have stronger bonds with each other than men do. I mean, we can be the cattiest bitches to each other, but at the same time, we can be the best of friends.
Anyways...it's always a little weird when something happens and she's not around for me to tell all of it to.
Life seems a little empty without a best friend in it.
Anyways, I discovered a really good blog yesterday. The writer had visited my other journal and in turn, I decided to check out her blog. It was really good, even though she'd only done two posts. It's all about dating and whatnot and I actually find myself relating to a lot of the things she says.
I was telling him about my firm rule of not taking things past the third date if I don't see any potential in a person. What's the point, right? And it's only something I've wised up to in the last year or two.
I'm getting older and I don't want to waste my time anymore --- but at the same time, I don't want to let on that this is how I feel. I mean, it's just guaranteed to send a guy running for the hills, you know?
H was telling me about how he'll usually wait about a week before he calls up a girl again --- just to add a bit of mystery and to keep her guessing, he said.
"It's all a game," he kept teling me.
I understand that. I really do. C, apparently, doesn't. She claims she's been out of the game for so long that she doesn't know what the hell's going on anymore.
Like this "waiting game" that I insist on playing. She's afraid if I wait too long, I'll wind up missing out on a good thing.
But shouldn't you hold back and wait just a little when it comes to someone who's just recently come out of a relationship?
Sometimes, I really second guess myself. I'll think one thing and then think, "Maybe I'm wrong."
And then I think things to death.
Wrote an overly long email about it to my best friend last night.
Remember when there was all of that crap in the news about how people thought Oprah and her best friend Gayle were gay? I thought that was so stupid, but I think women have stronger bonds with each other than men do. I mean, we can be the cattiest bitches to each other, but at the same time, we can be the best of friends.
Anyways...it's always a little weird when something happens and she's not around for me to tell all of it to.
Life seems a little empty without a best friend in it.
Anyways, I discovered a really good blog yesterday. The writer had visited my other journal and in turn, I decided to check out her blog. It was really good, even though she'd only done two posts. It's all about dating and whatnot and I actually find myself relating to a lot of the things she says.
1 Comments:
Dating to many men is a game. It is a challenge to try and beat the defensive actions of a woman and thus get the ultimate prize, her normally hidden gem. My website at www.pulltheboys.co.uk says to make him wait. This will beat him at his game and not only keep your good name intact, you have a chance of capturing his heart.
Best defense to the male game is to keep your legs crossed until his heart is won.
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